Have you asked yourself the question, what is success? Maybe even looked in the dictionary? I have not looked in the dictionary and the definitions will not give. I'm just a little shock you. Because I say that NO FAILURE. Do not you agree? And who said it would be easy? But do not despair. is vital information. Right now explain what I mean.
We are now just using a couple of spells go beyond success and failure. We will be on them. You at least agree that each has its own subjective criteria for success? Everyone understands it differently. Someone thinks that the new job with a salary increase of 15% the same – it's an achievement. And someone a million bucks – an intermediate step to a higher purpose. Someone writes a book and am glad that it distance, and someone is aiming to bestsellers.
Someone on the exam three suffice for the eyes and the other is a re-take the four. You, too, for sure, my idea of success, your success criteria. And you created them yourself (although it is probably not without someone's 'authoritative' opinion). Now divide each of the results of their actions into two categories – a successful or unsuccessful. If the result is stored in the category of "unsuccessful," most people upset, angry at themselves, criticize and disparage a set of more sophisticated methods, which you hopefully do not tell. Thus, nevrotiziruya themselves if something goes according to plan. But they defined these criteria! Ie themselves painted themselves into a trap:) I will not mention here, that someone has these same criteria din parents, school, television or some other extraneous artifact of our lives.